Update
Been some time since I hav updated my blog. Tons of tots on my mind. If I were to blog all of them down...it is goin to take hrs! U will hav 2 read until u cock eye oso. Hence...I will jus blog wat I tink has been on my mind for quite sum time.
Feelin shag sia. Yeah...even though there is not much activities tis week (as compared to last week). I am still lackin in rest. Gosh! When will I ever feel charged up?! Got alot of happy stuff happens tis week oso. One of them...is my notes. Haha...was grumbling e other dae abt not my blank notes. How to study when ur notes r filled wif blanks here n there?! I got them filled e veri next dae wif e help of someone. Haha... Seems like a small matter though. But I alwaes feel tat small things r e little things tat can actually brighten up ur life. But...sad to sae, we r often too blind to see them. We onli focus on big matters n hope to achieve them in e end. Another gd example is... I tink pple will sae I damn childish sia. I went for a roadshow sum time back in Orchard. We went as a grp. 3 of us got ice cream! I was one of them! I was happily eating away lah...cos long time ever since I receive tat kind of small cup ice cream...feels like a kid...wahahaha...
I tink I will quite busy frm now on. Projects starts to appear. My lecturers jus throw me 2 projects tis week. U will see me rantin abt discussion sessions again. E worst is CT (common test) is comin! I am not prepared lah. So...muz start to chiong liao. I might not b updatin so often liao. Will hav to chiong for CT then...enjoy myself during XMas. Wahaha... After CT...enjoy till siao for e fact tat CT is over n welcome my birthdae wif wide open arms! *HINT* Thank goodness my CT ends b4 my birthdae. If not...can cry sia! WoOHoO! Wahaha...feelin thick-skinned!
EXPECTATIONS...
Yeah. Tis is e word tat I believe everyone will b dread to hear it. Tis is esp. true for Singaporean kids...when their parents expects them to do well in exams. Cos they believe kids hav no other responsibilities in life when they r young. E onli one is studies. They will wanna them to do well in studies...not knowin kids oso hav other responsibilities! Tat includes...learning how to b a better person...how to make frens...e list jus goes on! I dread over it myself. Esp. when someone tells me tis..." I hav high expectations in u. Pls buck up / wake up! Dun disappoint me." Wah liew...stress ah! Yet...hav u ever wonder y pple argue or quarrel? Tis is super prominent in relationships like BGR, kinship n frenship. All tat relates to human relations again! (tats y I hate human relations so much!) To put it in simpler terms...BGR...couples quarrel cos they EXPECT sumting frm e other party. Like...expect e other party to call a certain no. of times each dae. --> one of e silly stuff...yet couples like to quarrel over it. Quota not met. Quarrel ah! Kinship...same as BGR, expects sumting frm e other party. Like...u wanna go out...but ur parents dun allow. Quarrel ah! Ur parents expect u to listen to them...on e other hand, u expect tat they will allow u to go out. Cos u feel tat u r old enoff to look after urself n noe wat is rite...wat is wrong. U expect them to believe tat u hav grown up. Frenship...oso same as BGR n kinship. Like...u meet up wif ur fren. He/She came late. U got pissed. Cos u expect he/she to b punctual. Ha! See wat I mean? It all boils down to e word...EXPECTATIONS! Sounds scary? Yeah...it is. I dun deny e fact tat I oso hav expectations in pple ard me. But...wat I tink I can do to minimise e no. of conflicts...is to hav a lower expectation of pple ard me. Not to stress them out...pple perform better when they r not stressed out. Agree? Haha...jus sum tots for ya to ponder.
Okie lah...tink I shall end here. My eyes tired...my hands tired...my brain tired...YAWNS! I need to rest b4 I study for CT. (like hua ze lei...tats wat my fren sae abt me...sleep whole dae...do nothin! LOL!) See ya!
