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30 December 2005

Relationship
10 ways to make your relationship more successful(FOR ME ONLI...haha):

1) Make sure you want to be in a relationship and that the person you are with is right for you.
2) Give your partner the benefit of the doubt — assume that they are trying their best to make you happy and are acting with your best interests in mind.
3) Be a little flexible in terms of how much closeness and togetherness you need.
4) Learn how to communicate in ways that will promote your relationship and build closeness and understanding between you. For example, show respect, not criticism.
5) Learn how to love yourself and how to be in touch with your own emotions — don't deny or suppress what you may be feeling or thinking.
6) Find ways to keep the passion in your relationship alive.
7) Learn to tolerate adversity and stress.
8) Experience life together as an adventure.
9) Accept each other's idiosyncrasies when it comes to sex — working it out can only maximize pleasure.
10) Take time out of each day to grow your relationship together.

Hmmmm...I seriously tink tis ways realli jus pointed out my mistakes in my relationships wif pple. E first one...I tink I will not go too much into it. Cos it is more of romance?! 2nd...yah...I dun deny e fact tat I might b too suspicious of pple. I got to learn to give pple e benefit of doubt. 3rd... Sumtimes...I feel tat I might b abit too clingy. So...oso muz learn tat everyone hav their own life to lead. :) 4th... Sumtimes...I noe I might b not respectful to pple ard me. So...another lesson. 5th... Tis one...I tink onli I, myself, noes it e best. Yeah...tis one almost happens everydae. I hav a high tendency of denyin or suppressin wat I am feelin n tinkin. I jus hav tis fear of lettin pple ard me noes wat I am feelin. 6th... Tis one ah...I realli need to learn sia. Feedbacks I get sumtimes is...I am BORING. Not onli tat, I get tired of stuff n pple very easily. I jus lose e passion loh. 7th... Learn to tolerate stress. Look @ me...u see me tis pattern. Do I need to sae more? As for adversity, I dun hav e patience for some cases. I will jus give up loh. 8th... Hmm...tis one seems abit hard to understand. Experiencin life wif pple... Eh...I tink I will put it tis way. There r times whereby I dun allow pple to step into my world. I dun open my doors. I am in my world alone. 9th... Ermm...wah liew...wat u wanna me sae?! How I noe sia?! 10th... I tink tis one refers to my family. As I hav said b4...there r times whereby I am too preoccupied wif sum stuff. I dun realli spent time wif pple who r impt to me. I will jus neglect them.

Haha...wah seh...*faints* SO many lessons to learn! I wonder when can I realli learn all of them! I tink I will jus start wif e 2nd n e last one. E last one...I am on my way to learnin it. As for e 2nd one...I will try not to tink too much lah. :) As for e others...well done! We'll wait n see how lah. SO many! Need alot of time ah! Pardon me sia...I promise to brush up on them.

Sigh. Dinner was bad. I had porridge. Haiz. :( Tink I got sum virus frm my mum. =X Cos my mum oso same prob. Her doc warned her tat it might spread. ARGH! 1 week of light diet. Sicko. Thank goodness it wont affect my birthdae. :D =X *thick-skinned*

Aniwae...jus learnt tat tokin wat u feel not so bad lah. Kind of gettin used to expressin myself. But e thing is weird...I feel myself trembling! Issit e med @ work?I tink so bah. Argh! Stupid med. I hate med all e time. It jus eeks me off. I feel like a genius. Din realli study @ all loh! Not much serious studyin done.

Okie lah...I dunno wat am I tokin liao. Time to look for food! I am hungry. See ya!

~ { 12:53 AM }
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